Motion to Redocket

I filed a motion to redocket this case two weeks ago. The Judge sent me packing because I didn’t have any paperwork to show her that I’d sent the Petitioner’s attorney what I’d filed although the Clerk sends it to him and everyone knows it. This is like some big dumb game that involves shuffling a ton of paperwork around to validate some people’s education. This could all be done electronically, but it’s still done via tree shavings. And just the slightest whim keeps the slow train sputtering down the tracks. And…

Fourth Visit with Cecelia

I got to meet with Cecelia for 1 hour today again. This is so sad and stupid I can’t even put it into words. I can’t imagine how her mother thinks this is a good idea in any way. Cecelia tells me she wants me to talk to that judge again so she can come to stay with me. This gets me a “Red Flag” by the supervisor who’s spending 98% of the entire “supervised” visit on the phone with someone not even paying attention. She didn’t even fill out a blank she left herself to complete with the name of the board game Cecelia and I was playing with one another. But she had time to write me up. They only are looking for negative things to remark on, I believe. Cecelia STILL had stitches iin her forehead and a bandage over them. PLUS scars on her spine where she told…

The Big Wedding Day

That magic day! We finally get married and say our wedding vows before God and everyone we hold dear. We will never leave one another! Until death do we part! Yes? No. It was all a big lie.

Michael & Casey Meet

The perfect meeting story. At the beach in Gulf Shores, Alabama. Casey and Michael meet, become friends. I’m shy and around a month later ask her to dinner and a movie. She shows up for dinner, stoned, on Lortabs, drinks a couple of cocktails tells me she slept with the guy that was on our weekend beach trip which is why she knew of his problem with brushing his teeth. I should have walked away then. Red flags all over the place.

Divorce Settlement Official!

A day to forever remember and think about. Nearly seven years earlier, I had a person VOW to me before God and everyone we held dear that she would never leave me. Today, that was officially made a lie. A BIG one. Seh divorced me and broke our home up and severed our marital bonds, whatever those ended up being worth.

I Go to Court To Talk With The Judge

I have a hearing set for today at 11:00 am to meet with the judge about rescinding the supervised access. It goes poorly, as it appears the court wants to heap as much misery and toil upon me as possible in the name of me paying an attorney to file my paperwork for me, and nothing more. I wait 4+ hours to see the judge,…

Third Visit With Cecelia

I was able to visit with Cecelia again today. She still has the stitches in her head, with a bandage over it, with no communication to me about it, which places the mother in contempt of court. I don’t want to file such a thing, but I’m not sure why I shouldn’t because it’s real and this sets a precedent. She hasn’t been compliant all along, with not contacting the Children’s Safe Haven, to notifying me about the injury, to hiring a new babysitter who I have no idea who this person is. Her past hiring decisions have all turned out to be nightmares, where people steal from her and me…

I File a Motion to Amend the Prior Order of Protection

I filed a motion to amend the Prior Order of Protection, was granted a hearing date of June 17. I notified the Petitioner’s attorney, who was very curt, to be polite. I showed up, the attorney did not. The Judge explained she wanted proof that I sent a filed copy to the Petitioner’s attorney, and sent me home empty-handed. A total waste of time. I waited 4 hours to see the judge for her to turn me around…

Second Visit With My Daughter

Second Visit with Cecelia. I’ve been filing and trying to do everything I can to make life resemble something normal. Note, at the first visit with Cecelia, she showed up with stitches on her forehead with a bandage covering them. The Children’s Safe Haven would not allow me to photograph her or the injury, which is absurd by any measure. She still had the stitches in this visit, and still…

I’m Able to Visit with My Daughter for the First Time in a Month

The mother did not contact the Children’s Safe Haven as instructed, within 7 days to begin the intake process so I might see our daughter again. I contacted her attorney and alerted him to this fact. He must have notified his client of ignoring her duties and responsibilities regarding our child and allowing…